Seen the Hello Kitty themed wedding. And I was thinking, how would the guy feel of having a Hello Kitty themed wedding? Maybe I wouldn't opt for Hello Kitty themed wedding. Maybe I'll opt for Penguin and Mouse wedding theme in future.
Anyway, Hello Kitty theme wasn't that main point I am talking about. The main thing was, this . . .
I was browsing through this wedding site and I came across this 37 things a sensitive and new age husband can do. And the comments wasn't good, because the men are saying about the women. Since I'm a girl myself (I'm not a woman yet), I think it wasn't entirely the women's fault.
Why can't men sees their fault too?
OK, forget about the lists both the husband and wife have to follow. It's the 21st century now, both men and women are working right? So, it would be fair that both take turns to take their role as husband and wife.
Another list that basically paints the man as someone who has to work like an ox to keep wifey all entertained and feeling fuzzy.
Then how about women? They turned into 黄脸婆 because of the men. They do the housework while the men did nothing. (Happens in my family, I think most asian country are like that right?) Are we women born to do housework, filial the husband, look after the kids, cook, buy groceries? We get married because we have to do all this shit and give up our dream? Why can't men work like an ox at least for certain period of time?
I mean, women does have the rights to do something for example, things that they like. Go to work and not give up their career because they're married, right?
Ladies, it’s your attitude that ruins it, each and every time. Stop reading Cosmo and listening to Oprah, they know nothing about men and what drives us.
I was wondering, why is it we, the women, always ruin things? Doesn't men ruin their own marriage because of having an affair outside? Because of their attitude as well? Because of their temper? Because they abuse their wife? Because they are too demanding at times? Why does women always get this kind of shit.
You see, the men just want the women to work like ox, or rather work worst than an ox. It's the 21st century, women don't necessary need a men to survive. We have our goals, we have our dreams to aim and achieve for. We don't need to sit at home, do all those household chores, serve the husband like a servant/maid.
Why can't the men and women share equal rights? Just because women are fragile?
Anyway, not important to me. Just my thoughts. Hopefully my wife don't give me a good wife list like this:
THE GOOD WIFE’S GUIDE
* Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious dinner ready, on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially his favourite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed.
* Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you’ll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. he has just been with a lot of work-weary people.
* Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.
* Prepare the children. Take a few minutes to wash the children’s hands and faces (if they are small), comb their hair and if necessary change their clothes. They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part.
* Be happy to see him.
* Listen to him. You may have a dozen things to tell him but the moment of is arrival is not the time. Let him talk first - remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.
* Make the evening his. Never complain if he comes home late, or goes out to dinner or other places of entertainment without you. Instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure.
* Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or have him lie down in the bedroom. have a warm or cool drink ready for him.
* Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.
* Don’t ask him questions about his actions or question his judgement or integrity. remember he is the master of the house and as such will always excercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.
* A good wife always knows her place.
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